Though Leighton Elizabeth is our first baby, our family actually began about 3.5 years ago. This was when we added our first member, Baron McGhee. He is our brilliant, sweet, and hyper-active Rat Terrier. (Cousin to the Jack Russell)
He was born the day after Valentines day in 2007. We welcomed him in to our family in late March that same year. I picked him out specifically because he had a slight, natural mohawk on the top of his little head. He still has it. Baron is the smartest dog in the whole world, and I'm not just saying that because he's ours. He was potty trained in a mere two weeks, and does every trick in the book. We call him our "circus dog." He sits, lays, stays, jumps, dances, high-fives, shakes, etc. And he does most of these by hand signals that we came up with, kind of like sign language for dogs. His favorite things in the world are: chasing the red dot from the laser pointer, eating, playing fetch, his brother, treats for being a "good boy," his toys, people in general. Most dogs, believe it or not, are not attached to their owners like most people think. Baron is very sweet and loves just lounging with us but he is also very hyper and loves chasing, playing, etc. He does tend to jump on new people (a habit we have tried sooo hard to break, failing miserably) but he is harmless. He will turn 4 just before Leighton is due.
Then, in May of 2009 we added another member to our growing family.
Barlow McGhee, our Miniature Dachshund, was given to me on my birthday, May 27th. He was born April 3rd. Barlow, well, he's our pretty dog. He is dumb as rocks but my goodness one look at his sweet "please pet me" face and you're hooked. He is the happiest, sweetest dog in the universe and his being dumb is a great source of entertainment for us; there is never a dull moment. It's almost impossible to have a bad day in our household because of him. Baron didn't particularly like his brother at first but now they love each other. They love playing together and only get jealous on occasion. Barlow was a much more difficult dog to train. It took an entire year to potty train this poor thing and there were so many times I'd want to give up and give him away and then he'd crawl in to my lap, turn over on his belly and give me the saddest face you've ever seen. Naturally, I could never do it. Barlow's favorites are; his mommy, his toys, his brother, food, treats, being outside, people in general, and being loved on. Barlow will turn two about a month after his little sister is due.
We love our dogs. We treat them as family members, but not as people. We are a little concerned as to how they will react when Leighton gets here. We have done all the research and gotten tips like "bring home blankets from the hospital with her scent on it before you bring her home" and "before she comes, play crying baby sounds for them often so they will be used to it." We want to know what worked for you? How did you get your dogs used to the idea of a new member? How did you handle jealousy issues? Safety issues? We only have dogs, no other pets, so any advice is welcomed and we thank you in advance.
I feel her little kicks a lot more recently and I can now see them.
I have begun to get a little swelling in my feet when I am on them for too long so I try to rest a little during the day and the back pain before bed is no fun either but luckily once I fall asleep it seems to disappear, it's just the falling asleep part that is uncomfortable.
Gestational Diabetes test tomorrow afternoon! I would appreciate anyone who will say a little prayer for me for this delightful occasion.
I think that's all I have for now, hopefully I'll have nursery progress pictures posted soon. We are working on it right now!
Introducing blankets is a good idea. If you have friends with babies, introduce them (at a safe distance of course). If they are not aggressive towards people coming toward you, you should be safe. It is only hard if they get aggressive. Let them have tours of the nursery and get a baby doll that you can carry around with you. wrap it in a blanket, sit with it. That way they are used to something in your arms and you get an idea of any tendencies they may develop
ReplyDeleteHope thinks we did the blanket thing when Krisalyn was born. Of course Dex was still jealous and when we neglected to move Krisalyns hair brush, butt paste, and teething liquid further away from the edge of any table, Dex would chew them up. SO the only advice I can offer is get used to the idea that the dogs will still love you and the baby but may not be so gentle to her things. They will quit eventually but I suggest buying multiples of the small chewable things and keeping them away from the pups.
ReplyDeleteBlankets and clothing of his from the hospital. We set up the nursery before he got here and let them roam around in there and sniff everything once it was all set-up (we don't let them hang out in there nowadays). That's really about it. We made sure to greet them first when we came home, and give them plenty of attention. We have girl dogs, though, so they are pretty motherly.
ReplyDeleteWe were worried, but they ended up being SO protective and wonderful! In fact, we think one of them knew my water was going to break about a half hour before it actually did!
Do what is best for you!
Oh, and our dogs, amazingly enough, don't touch his things. It is like they know not to chew the baby toys. They will lick his burb cloths and bibs, but they don't mess with his toys. It's wonderful.
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